Welcome to The Poly Quiz!
Relationships can be complicated, especially polyamorous ones. Unexplored assumptions and expectations can easily lead to misunderstandings and communication breakdowns. Asking the right questions can spark deeper, important conversations about what really matters to you in your polyamorous relationships.
This quiz will help you discover how well your values and relationship needs match up with others. There are no right or wrong answers; the quiz offers an opportunity to explore your boundaries and expectations, and reflect on what you want from - and what you have to offer to - non-monogamous relationships.
At the end of the quiz, you’ll get a “sharing code” that you can give to current or potential partners. Once they take their own quiz, you’ll both get a detailed breakdown of where your answers match up and where they don’t.
Unlike traditional monogamous setups, polyamory involves balancing multiple connections. This means compatibility has layers. Everyone will have their own unique styles and preferences; understanding these preferences early can save a lot of stress later.
Practical details also play a role. Think time management, lifestyle choices, or even future goals. If one partner wants to build a family and another wants to travel the world full-time, those differences may cause friction. This Polyamory Compatibility Quiz can help.
If you’re curious about how compatible you might be with a partner (or even with yourself) The Poly Quiz can be an excellent starting point. The quiz will ask about communication styles, comfort with different relationship structures, and values around time and intimacy. While no quiz can give you a perfect answer, this one will spark important conversations and highlight areas you may want to explore further.