Relationships can be complicated, especially non-traditional, non-monogamous ones. Unexplored assumptions and expectations can easily lead to misunderstandings and communication breakdowns. Asking the right questions can spark deeper, important conversations about what really matters to you in your relationships.

This quiz will help you discover how well your values and relationship needs match up with others. There are no right or wrong answers: you won’t get a score or an assessment of how “good” you are at non-monogamy. Instead, the quiz offers an opportunity to explore your boundaries and expectations, and reflect on what you want from - and what you have to offer to - non-monogamous relationships.

At the end of the quiz, you’ll get a “sharing code” that you can give to current or potential partners. Once they take their own quiz, you’ll both get a detailed breakdown of where your answers match up and where they don’t.

Relationships are messy, magical, and always worth figuring out!